Pure Scientific Tips For Successful Marriage -PART 3
SAY THANK YOU & WE
Two words that can go along way. “Thank You”. In 2007, scientists asked married partners and student roommates whether they appreciated the chores done by the other person. While most said they felt gratitude, many had not relayed these feelings to their partner assuming ‘he or she will understand.” Results also showed individuals who felt appreciated by their partners had less bitterness over any imbalance in labour and more satisfaction with their relationship than other study participants did.
Another simple word that can boost partner pleasure: “We”. A study proved that spouse who used couple-focused word such as “We” “Our” and ‘Us” when talking about a conflict also showed more affection, fewer negative behaviour such as anger, and lower physiological stress levels during the disagreement. Using words that expressed separateness such as ‘I”, “You” and “Me” during the discussion were associated with marital dissatisfaction. So ladies, it seems that ‘Thank You’ and ‘We’ become more important than “I Love You”. So adopt this and have a Happy Marriage.
